Get the Love, Sex &
Intimacy You Truly Desire
Many men struggle with feeling guilty about their desires for sex and intimacy…
You Deserve MORE!
At Red Jasper Men, we’ve created programs and retreats that help men release their guilt and learn how to get their emotional and sexual needs met. You can have the authentic connection, love, intimacy, and partnership you desire.
Do you feel like you often have to suppress your voice or your pleasure?
Do you feel shame or guilt for the desires you have?
Are you confused with how to communicate with a partner or potential partners?
Do you have difficulties with erections, orgasm, or ejaculation?
Do you feel like you might never find a satisfying relationship that you love?
Do you feel like you have no one to talk to about all this?
Why Red Jasper Men?
In order to do that, you need specialized knowledge, skills, and confidence.
The problem is our society as a whole has categorized men and masculinity in general to be toxic; which often leaves men feeling guilty, shameful, and insecure for their desires.
We believe anyone who is willing to be honest with themselves, to have an open mind to possibilities, to put in some time and effort, to be willing to sit in the discomfort of uncertainty and change, and to take thoughtful and meaningful risks… will be successful in creating the authentic connection, love, intimacy, and partnership they truly desire.
We understand what it feels like to be in a relationship that has unresolved issues around sex and intimacy, or no relationship at all. We understand what it feels like to be frustrated and stuck with no solutions in sight. That is why we are committed to providing a safe environment for you to explore your needs, your deepest desires. To truly connect with yourself and your partner(s) or potential partners, and to create rituals and routines. When done over time, with consistency, these practices lead to the sex life and relationship(s) of your dreams.
How Do I Get Started?
Sign up for the Five Day Intro Course
Join the Monthly Membership
Attend a Retreat
Our heart breaks when we see men struggle…
You deserve to wake up smiling, feeling your lover, and knowing that a true connection is yours. Long-lasting erections, heightened full-body orgasms, toe-curling ejaculation, and excitement about life belong to you!
Feel the confidence of knowing exactly who you are, what you stand for, and what your needs and wants are. Feel the certainty that you can communicate with your partner or potential partners, as well as negotiate growing and learning together in love.
Save time researching websites, reading books, buying toys and courses that don’t work.
“Own Your Pleasure,
Reclaim Your Authentic Power”
A 5-Day Intro Course for Men
Nicki has spent many years developing her understanding of sexuality, she’s a master and it shows. She skillfully used personal inventories and body practices to help us see our patterns and how to break free of them. She helped us all to stay on course and create a vision of who we want to be as men.
Nicki’s passionate demeanor and encouragement really took working on my business to the next level. I realized that intentionally working pleasure into my daily routines helped me increase energy and focus. Now, I feel invigorated, joyful, and more engaged with my work!
Frequently Asked Questions
Why should I trust you as a woman doing this work & leading men?
Nicki is uniquely qualified to do this work. She was hurt deeply by important men in her life. Instead of having a “crisis of faith”, she has overcome her trauma, done her own healing work, and risen to a place of love and empathy. She knows that what they did was not OK, but it isn’t who they really are. They need to do their own healing work. She persevered and rose to heights of a champion and found great love in a wonderful man.
In her experience, when a man is truly seen by a woman who has done her own healing work, who is truly satisfied both sexually and emotionally within her own loving relationship, something magical happens… He understands that he is needed in this world to step into his divine masculine energy to provide and protect. He knows that it is totally ok for him to revel in his divine feminine energy, to receive and to be in pleasure. He recognizes that all of it creates a space for him to be in his authentic masculine power.
Will I really use it and show up for it?
Great question! This is a time to be honest with yourself and ask these questions.
Are you tired of being unsatisfied sexually and emotionally? Are you insecure, self-doubting, feeling shame or guilt? Do you feel it’s unfair or overwhelming to be categorized as toxic, going unseen, or unheard and disrespected? If the answer to any of these is “yes”, you need support and to stop trying to do it all.
The world is overflowing with content… we have a QUICK & EASY-5 Day Intro Course and a promising online Monthly Membership to help you quickly access your masculine power – faster, more often, and with far less effort.
I’m super busy, I don’t have time for one more thing.
Being a man isn’t easy, especially in a toxic man’s world. You have a lot of demands on you and you are fucking busy. That’s why we created the challenge to be short, easy lessons. You can do these at the gym, while driving, etc.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why should I trust you as a woman doing this work & leading men?
Nicki is uniquely qualified to do this work. She was hurt deeply by important men in her life. Instead of having a “crisis of faith”, she has overcome her trauma, done her own healing work, and risen to a place of love and empathy. She knows that what they did was not OK, but it isn’t who they really are. They need to do their own healing work. She persevered and rose to heights of a champion and found great love in a wonderful man.
In her experience, when a man is truly seen by a woman who has done her own healing work, who is truly satisfied both sexually and emotionally within her own loving relationship, something magical happens… He understands that he is needed in this world to step into his divine masculine energy to provide and protect. He knows that it is totally ok for him to revel in his divine feminine energy, to receive and to be in pleasure. He recognizes that all of it creates a space for him to be in his authentic masculine power.
Will I really use it and show up for it?
Great question! This is a time to be honest with yourself and ask these questions.
Are you tired of being unsatisfied sexually and emotionally? Are you insecure, self-doubting, feeling shame or guilt? Do you feel it’s unfair or overwhelming to be categorized as toxic, going unseen, or unheard and disrespected? If the answer to any of these is “yes”, you need support and to stop trying to do it all.
The world is overflowing with content… we have a QUICK & EASY-5 Day Intro Course and a promising online Monthly Membership to help you quickly access your masculine power – faster, more often, and with far less effort.
I’m super busy, I don’t have time for one more thing.
Being a man isn’t easy, especially in a toxic man’s world. You have a lot of demands on you and you are fucking busy. That’s why we created the challenge to be short, easy lessons. You can do these at the gym, while driving, etc.
Address
6300 E. Hampden Ave. Unit C #351, Denver, CO 80222
Red Jasper is known as the Stone of Endurance, a gentle but vital stimulator of chi, or Life Force; bringing physical strength and energy, stamina, focus and determination. Its steady frequency calms the emotional body creating a lasting stable energy for improving health or overcoming illness, setting goals and following through to completion, facing unpleasant tasks and having the courage to rectify wrongs. It is a stone of passion, useful for restoring and rejuvenating the libido, and in manifesting creative ideas. A perfect stone for our mission.
We know that you want to be an empowered lover, fully satisfied and connected to your partner and your authentic masculine power.